The Integrity Gap

Trust your gut

The best, and worst, advice, depending on context, experience, and insight. When should we rely on instincts?

The Integrity GapTrust your gut

The best, and worst, advice, depending on context, experience, and insight. When should we rely on instincts?

Scotland’s political scammers class

The Scottish National Party (SNP) has dominated Caledonian politics for decades. You may have heard the saying “Power tends to corrupt, and absolute power corrupts absolutely” (from a letter by Lord Acton in 1887). It is perhaps then not surprising that the self-styled “money man” of the SNP, Peter Murrell, and former husband of its long-time leader, Nicola Sturgeon, has been found guilty of embezzling ~£400,000.

Could we have seen this coming?

Living beyond means

The Association of Certified Fraud Examiners’ most recent Report to the Nations once again highlights the most common behavioural indicators of fraud. First on the list, “living beyond means.”

Let’s have a little look at Murrell’s spending spree between 2010 and 2022 (most of which these purchases used SNP bank cards and were disguised, badly, with faked paperwork):

An eclectic list, and you’d imagine the motorhome and Jag might raise some eyebrows. But, it’s the last four items I found curious. “Me theory” is generally a terrible idea in an investigative context. It goes something like, “I would never…[react that way, tried to hide the crime that way, used that line of defence, etc.]” The suspect is not you or me. That said, I’m going to indulge in some me theory briefly…

…with context. Both my wife and I grew up in households where money was a constant source of stress, conflict, and anxiety. Unsurprisingly, we both, therefore, tend to notice purchases. If I had been splashing the cash on Le Creuset, amidst the delight, there would have been questions. So, when Nicola Sturgeon claims that she believed they could afford all of the above because she and Murrell were DINKs (double-income, no kids) with decent jobs, I’m not hugely inclined to buy that as a reason not to question.

We don’t believe you

I am not alone here. A recent poll suggests that only 20% of Scots believe her, while 60% do not. Her case is not strengthened by the assertion that she has “no memory of ever seeing the [sizeable] motorhome,” which was parked around the side of her mother-in-law’s house.

So, where does this leave us in determining if someone is “leaving beyond their means”?

Trust your gut (sometimes)

Most (if not all) of my training and further studies in behavioural analysis and deception detection had a data-led obsession. For example, we now know that for a credible indicator of deception, we need a cluster of three or more emotionally contradictory indicators across two communication channels within seven seconds of the probe or question (3-2-7). That 3-2-7 science serves me well, but it takes a while to be able to a) learn what questions or probes elicit emotional reactions, and b) to spot them simultaneously across our six communication channels in real time.

Furthermore, and somewhat depressingly, science tells us, most people are no better than chance at detecting deception But, fear not, we do have an ancient in-built radar for incongruence and danger. Our intuition.

However, intuition can get us into trouble. Normally, this is because we’re trying to exercise that intuition in the wrong contexts. For example, the judgment requires too much complexity (data) for an instinctive read (e.g., relying on your gut to buy a house). Sometimes it’s because of bias (not just about other people, but we all have a truth or lie bias, pessimist, optimist, etc.). It can also be because we’re under stress, past traumas and triggers (here, we’ll hear the phrase, “clouding my judgment”).

So, we need to learn to track our instincts. Play games when you’re out and about - ‘cold reads’ of people we meet, followed by sensible questions, forecasting how a colleague might react in a meeting, observing those in your family as they go about their day-to-day and chores (“My kids never put anything in the dishwasher…” or do they!?). Note where you get it wrong (and right). Start to cluster the wrong judgments to understand if the cause was bias, trigger, trauma, or complexity (too many datapoints).

Data + instinct

You need only do this for a few weeks to start to ‘trust your gut’ a bit more. When we start to dump and shed our preconceptions and baggage, our little limbic brain is actually very useful. It’s why we’re here (our ancestors’ fight, freeze, or fight response fired enough times correctly to allow them to survive long enough to perpetuate our lineage). Dr Tara Swart is a great place to start for more scientific analysis about the merits of listening to our intuition.

As we begin to identify the data gaps, we find ways to (partially or completely) plug those gaps. Once here, now we’re better able to spot incongruence, including things like someone ‘living beyond means’, including a hefty motorhome on your mother-in-law’s suburban driveway (seen below, being towed away).

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